Is it just me or have you noticed how many people are so quick to jump into a marriage that follow by a divorce shortly after. What is going wrong within all of these relationships? I have formed my own opinion based off of what I have experienced with my own parents divorce, as well as my friends I surround myself with. I think it's because many people today are too focus on with what's going on right now and they tend to forget about the "long run" of things. Many of my friends are too blind to see that just because things are perfect now and everyone happy that maybe tomorrow something unexpectedly could happen that could bring difficulties within a relationship. Once there faced with a problem, the first thing either one of them want to do is point to blame on the other person instead of finding a way to work together and overcome the problem. Why does someone always have to take the fault? Another reason I believe couples tend to get a divorce because everyone wants to think that there's always something better out there, they just can't be happy with what they have. Once people tend to have something and know that it theirs, eventually what they have isn't as good as it was before to them and they find something else that catches their eye. I believe this is a reason because a lot of people are getting married right out of high school to people that they grew up with and most of the time, they haven't really met different people outside of what their comfortable with and once a person starts to meet new people and gain new experiences outside of what they know, they start to think that maybe there's something more out there for them, something so much more exciting.
Another big issue and it is consider to be the number one issue why people get divorce is money. http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/35097/top_reasons_people_divorce. Money can cause a lot of problems within a relationship. When their starts to be trouble with the household finances, it's like everything else starts to come crashing down. After they do say "money makes the whole go round" and I believe it is very true. I am sure that all of you have seen someone go through a financial hardship, if you haven't yourself been in one. It brings on a lot of added stress to an individual and that not even including if the individual had a spouse and children to provide for. I believe money can make a person change, it can make a person harder to communicate with, and also makes you feel a little withdrawal from someone who is having money problems because they tend to have such a negative outlook on the situation. Eventually you just grow tired of listening to the negativity and I think it like that in a marriage too. One spouse will grown tired of the negativity brought on by the financial hardship within the family and decides the best options is too leave.
These are just my reasons on why I think in general why so many people are getting divorces and I could be right or wrong, but based of the experiences I have been through and seen these are the main reason why people just cant get along and make a marriage work.
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
Thursday, October 25, 2007
Top 3 Blogs About Divorce
Top 3
1. http://lawlady.typepad.com/ (Lawlady's Divorce Blog)
2. http://blog.totaldivorce.com/ (Total Divorce Blog)
3. http://www.divorce-blog.co.uk/ (Divorce Blog)
Criteria:
The criteria in which I based my top three blogs were based off the author's passion about the topic, their content, and how they presented it. In these particular blogs, I quickly noticed how in tuned the author was with what they were talking about and how they provided great detail about the topic. In all three of them, their presentations were very neat, easy to read, and provided added material such as pictures and graphs, and suggested reading material to go along with the information that they provided within their blog.
Typical audience:
The typical audience that I hope to reach are the ones who are actually through divorce, thinking about getting marry, currently married, or basically anyone thats ever been in a relationship. I am hoping to make everyone more aware of people's reasoning behind the divorces, the hardships, who are affected by them, and life after an divorce.
1. http://lawlady.typepad.com/ (Lawlady's Divorce Blog)
2. http://blog.totaldivorce.com/ (Total Divorce Blog)
3. http://www.divorce-blog.co.uk/ (Divorce Blog)
Criteria:
The criteria in which I based my top three blogs were based off the author's passion about the topic, their content, and how they presented it. In these particular blogs, I quickly noticed how in tuned the author was with what they were talking about and how they provided great detail about the topic. In all three of them, their presentations were very neat, easy to read, and provided added material such as pictures and graphs, and suggested reading material to go along with the information that they provided within their blog.
Typical audience:
The typical audience that I hope to reach are the ones who are actually through divorce, thinking about getting marry, currently married, or basically anyone thats ever been in a relationship. I am hoping to make everyone more aware of people's reasoning behind the divorces, the hardships, who are affected by them, and life after an divorce.
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